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Who am I? I am a screwed-up blogger and an active blog reader since 2007. A soulful dreamer who believes that passion is life and a person who is looking for meaning, just like any other human being in this world. A super girl wannabe who is currently taking chances and chasing pavements, while keeping up with time and living life in general. This is me, and this blog is the outlet of my random thoughts. (^___^)
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How to Make Yourself Indispensable
 Thursday, July 17, 2008 @ 2:41 PM |
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If you didn’t show up at work tomorrow, would it matter? What if you didn’t show up for dinner?
These are the questions posed by this Lifehack article, which advises making some major changes -- in your life and in yourself -- if you can answer no to either one of them.
After all, feeling appreciated and getting recognition from your friends, family and colleagues is something that all of us crave. And a life without either could easily interfere with your emotional well-being.
While the ideas below are not easy, they’re not impossible either. If you want to feel and be not only important but also indispensable, here’s what Lifehack suggests you do.
1. NetworkJoin and use one or two social networking tools. Select 10 or 20 people who are prominent in your field and introduce yourself to them by writing them letters or email, giving them a call, or leaving comments on their blogs. Join and become active in professional or recreational organizations. 2. LoveTry to be a loving, caring person in all your relationships. Approach every person you interact with as a person with their own needs, desires, and motivations. Look out for the people around you, be there when they need someone to lean on. 3. ExcelBe excellent at something. Figure out the thing that is most satisfying to you and learn how to do it better than anyone else. 4. Create SomethingWhether it’s a book, a blog, a painting, a piece of furniture, or a recipe. The things you create contain a little part of you, a spark of who you are. 5. InnovateFigure out how to solve problems and you will be anything but disposable. 6. Make People Feel GoodA joke, a compliment, an engaging discussion about the latest film or book -- these things add a little light to the lives of those around you. 7. Share or Teach What You KnowIt’s not all that hard to put together a class, seminar, or workshop on just about any topic. Also seek out opportunities to share what you know informally throughout the day. 8. Be EccentricEccentricity represents a significant difference in the way you view the world. While this can be alienating to some people, others will seek out and reward you handsomely for your insights. 9. Make a DifferenceWhat matters in all these points is that you make a difference in people’s lives. Do that, and the world -- or at least some of the world -- will hang on your every action.
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The Blogger
Not a lot of people know (or would even understand), but I am also a victim of drama obsession.  I've been camping in dramalandia since I was 13 years old, and that's where you will most likely find me when I have nothing to do.
One of the symptoms of this disease is daydreaming about dramas everywhere whether you are at work, walking down the stairs, sleeping, even as you are walking...creepy isn't it? Hahaha!
I am also a big Asian music fan and I think Asian music rocks! I go back and forth from Cpop to Kpop and Jpop, so I may be different (and strange) compared to other people that you can find around.  I am an elder sister  , a dreamer  , a believer  , a gamer  , wanderer  , blogger  , an optimist  , an ultimate foodie  and a, hands down, fangirl  . I love reading books  , writing  , music  , photography and traveling.
I am a nurse by profession  who is also a copy editor  and a freelance writer  . I enjoy learning how to play musical instruments  and learning various languages  . I am crazy, loud, spontaneous, free-spirited and most of the time, a klutz.
Eren Asentista a.k.a. Eray, 23, female, from Dumaguete City, Philippines. My personality...it's complicated. :D Believe me, you wouldn't want to know who I am. Hahaha! XD
I am currently watching...
In the coming days, I plan to watch...
In Asian Entertainment, I fancy...
(This is still lacking, but this is more or less it. LOL! I will most likely be updating this in the future to accommodate my growing list of biases but check em out!)
 
The things that I want to do before I die are the following:
 An Asian cruise.
Templestay in Korea.
An African safari adventure.
Backpacking to Europe.
Traveling through the European railways.
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How to Make Yourself Indispensable
Thursday, July 17, 2008 @ 2:41 PM |
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If you didn’t show up at work tomorrow, would it matter? What if you didn’t show up for dinner?
These are the questions posed by this Lifehack article, which advises making some major changes -- in your life and in yourself -- if you can answer no to either one of them.
After all, feeling appreciated and getting recognition from your friends, family and colleagues is something that all of us crave. And a life without either could easily interfere with your emotional well-being.
While the ideas below are not easy, they’re not impossible either. If you want to feel and be not only important but also indispensable, here’s what Lifehack suggests you do.
1. NetworkJoin and use one or two social networking tools. Select 10 or 20 people who are prominent in your field and introduce yourself to them by writing them letters or email, giving them a call, or leaving comments on their blogs. Join and become active in professional or recreational organizations. 2. LoveTry to be a loving, caring person in all your relationships. Approach every person you interact with as a person with their own needs, desires, and motivations. Look out for the people around you, be there when they need someone to lean on. 3. ExcelBe excellent at something. Figure out the thing that is most satisfying to you and learn how to do it better than anyone else. 4. Create SomethingWhether it’s a book, a blog, a painting, a piece of furniture, or a recipe. The things you create contain a little part of you, a spark of who you are. 5. InnovateFigure out how to solve problems and you will be anything but disposable. 6. Make People Feel GoodA joke, a compliment, an engaging discussion about the latest film or book -- these things add a little light to the lives of those around you. 7. Share or Teach What You KnowIt’s not all that hard to put together a class, seminar, or workshop on just about any topic. Also seek out opportunities to share what you know informally throughout the day. 8. Be EccentricEccentricity represents a significant difference in the way you view the world. While this can be alienating to some people, others will seek out and reward you handsomely for your insights. 9. Make a DifferenceWhat matters in all these points is that you make a difference in people’s lives. Do that, and the world -- or at least some of the world -- will hang on your every action.
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